• hypnicjerk@lemmy.world
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    3 hours ago

    right, this is basically saying “i don’t trust you not to spike my drink, take me to a second location, and rape me”

    and maybe you shouldn’t be online dating at all if that’s where you start out from

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      3 hours ago

      But even then, no one needs to ask you out on a date to do that. Any time you go out in public by yourself that could happen just as easily. If you’re that unreasonably fearful then i don’t want to spend time with you