• rabber@lemmy.caOP
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    3 days ago

    was she honest about her issues or did she manipulate you? was she working on it?

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      She was not honest and was not working on it. I was just hopeful it would magically get better. Because I’m stupid and figured it had to if I just kept working on it and being a good boyfriend. But I know now there wasn’t much I could do.

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        2 days ago

        Bingo. Been there. So much better to be alone. Hard to make any progress in life when you have a partner who is totally unreliable and unsupportive and views everything in life as a threat to themselves.