I have accounts on other instances, but lemmy.ml is genuinely quite peaceful. I find myself always coming back to it.

There’s a distinct lack of general abuse there, and people seem to restrain themselves from needless insults

Yeah on second glance, it is federated with lemmygrad, but I somehow don’t see the posts from there. Apparently, I’ve only blocked one sub from there “GenZedong”, but that seems to be enough for me to not see any of their stuff at a ll.

I am currently slowly migrating towards another instance, but I genuinely do feel comfortable on lemmy.ml

Not all of us are happy with it. The Pro-Russia, pro-China posts are enough to make me raise an eyebrow and keep my mouth shut when a mod comes around.

But… it’s genuinely one of the better moderated instances. It is quite peaceful compared to other communities. I dont see lemmygrad, I dont see beehaw, it’s just, restful