butch is more masculine

reminds me of The Trial by Kafka

the first step to help with a disorder is to stop demonisation.

stop calling every dislikeable person a narcissist. you don’t need to be a narcissist to be an asshole.

people who are victims of abuse, done by people with cluster B disorders or not, often develop these disorders. they don’t seek help for it or admit it tho, because is it seen as “the abuser” disorder.

finally, people can have cluster B traits without being cluster B themselves. same with every other personality disorder. we need to stop armchair diagnosing people, especially on the internet.

there’s a difference between not being perfect and supporting outing trans children.

If you mean the ability to post at both at the same time, on the same site, there’s mbin.

sorry, some of the redditors still kept their attitude while going to lemmy

yo arrête de parler français je t’en prie 🤮

scrolled past and saw one for almost every subthread.

Post about western achievements are often taken as granted (except maybe curing cancer), while eastern ones are scrutinised to the smallest of details.

Ngl I’m getting quite fed up with the casual misogyny on lemmy. I thought we’d be better than this.

I wish a woman would make a more woman focused instance so that other women can feel safe using lemmy.

Correct me if I’m wrong, but I rarely see any mass comments from people in ml. In political topics, it’s mostly barely a handfull of the same users. Plus, political topics often get pushed to the front pages, so it’s not unlikely that the users see it themselves, whether or not Davel posted the thread in question.

Hexbear is the one that mostly ““brigades””.

The only reason this happens is because they can’t downvote. So they comment instead.

I was thinking of making one, but I’m not a woman, so I’ll think of something else

The rule 2 refers to the rule 2 of the instance, not the community, which is:

Be respectful, especially when disagreeing. Everyone should feel welcome here.

The part you decided to show in the modlog is also a little deceptive. Here is the missing part:

“BoTh SiDeS!” EDIT lol, the instant downvote from OP.

there’s also plume: https://joinplu.me/

I’m not sure if I’ve properly explored the idea, but a specific “digital culture” would help a lot. Inside jokes, ways of speaking, emojis, memes, etc. really help an instance to distinguish itself from others.

The best example is Hexbear (ik but just hear me out for a second). Their culture is borrowed from the edgier side of the leftist internet, but they still have a style of their own. They were so recogniseable even, that a user claimed to be scared of seeing pronouns next to someone’s username because they knew it would be a comment from Hexbear (they used to be the only instance with such features, before others followed suit).

I have a hypothesis that a good amount of issolation, or at least encouraging users to only post on communities on your instance, would be good for developping some kind of culture, maybe even kinship between them.

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I was scared nobody would get it lmao

That’s not just it. She literally hoped she would get an exiting job for the IDF, and said herself, in the following video, that she went on raids “for fun”: https://youtu.be/ytOl5hbTrCY

Also even if it was propaganda, tf do you mean by “chinese” 😭

You’re defending an IDF soldier who was proud of doing their job, on a radical Marxist-leninist forum. Call it trolling or whatever, but that’s kinda on you.