While there is undeniably large crossover, I also know a several of ace people, who are all very nerdy.
And like, for me, I mean this with zero judgement, I think kink is gross. People can and should live their lives ‘out loud’, and I think there is nothing wrong with kink. But also, I’d prefer not to hear about it, or to know specifics
No, just best bros, who also explored each other’s bodies sometimes.