I mean… the definition of a relationship is that there’s another person to have a relationship with. So probably that one.
I think the point you’re missing is that the requirement here was stated as “as long as you’re not an insufferable person, you will get sex”, which is blatantly false. You can be perfectly pleasant and never “get sex”.
My approach is to trust their lived experience. They are frustrated. If someone applies to 100 jobs, and only gets scam offers and ghosted by businesses, I don’t tell them how they just need to smile more authentically.
I mean… the definition of a relationship is that there’s another person to have a relationship with. So probably that one.
I think the point you’re missing is that the requirement here was stated as “as long as you’re not an insufferable person, you will get sex”, which is blatantly false. You can be perfectly pleasant and never “get sex”.
My approach is to trust their lived experience. They are frustrated. If someone applies to 100 jobs, and only gets scam offers and ghosted by businesses, I don’t tell them how they just need to smile more authentically.